Cont. frome other question?

I didn't tell my ex that the baby was his he umed it was his and I just didn't correct him. As far as the other guy goes I told him that it was my ex's because I could break it to him better then my ex, for the simple fact that my ex it abusive and I would have to fear for my life if I told him that it wasn't his. And also the other guy--would I ran into on Friday, we talked and he told me that he was getting married in 9 months-- but he also told me that he misses me and all that--so I don't know what to do about that either.